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The hourglass : life as an aging mortal / Pamela Cuming.

Cuming, Pamela, (author.).

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Record details

  • ISBN: 9781530840212
  • ISBN: 153084021X
  • Physical Description: 293 pages ; 25 cm
  • Publisher: [United States] : Pamela Cuming, [2016]
  • Manufacturer: North Charleston, South Carolina : [Manufactured by CreateSpace], 2016.

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Bibliography, etc. Note:
Includes bibliographical references.
Formatted Contents Note:
The hourglass: birth, death and the in-between -- Mind matters: placebos and nocebos -- The war of the ages: Confucius be damned -- The front of the line: ashes, ashes, we all fall down -- An apple a day: dealing with doctors -- Mirror, mirror: loving our aging bodies -- Antidotes to aging: the four C's -- Teeter totter: loving our aging mates -- 'Till death us do part: the journey through the shadows -- The mortality club: talking about death over coffee.
Summary, etc.:
In The Hourglass, Pamela Cuming invites us to contemplate how we can find the courage to age and to confront death as the runway of our lives gets shorter. How can we continue to find meaning in life when we already know the end of the story? What can we do to keep our inner flame burning bright when we grow old and have lost the spell of potential? What can we do to create a mindset that will help us fight back or continue to enjoy life when our bodies weaken and our health declines? Is it possible to love our aging bodies as we once loved our younger selves? How can we continue to love our aging mates when they grow short-tempered, and impatient and can't play with us or interact with us the way they used to? What can we do to sustain the vitality of our relationship with our mate when we grow old and the strobe lights dim, lust wanes, and mating rituals are transformed into the bonds of friendship? What can we do to make sure that doctors and hospitals act in our best interest, and contribute rather than detract from the quality of our lives? How can we manage the inherent conflict between our own desire to remain autonomous and our children's desire to keep us safe? Is there anything we can do to ease the transition between living as a totally mobile, independent being and a person who is dependent on the help of others? How do we avoid the conflicts that too often arise between our siblings when we come together to bury our last remaining parent? How can we harness our creative talents or the talents of others so that they become an antidote to aging? How important are the presence of other people to our ability to age well? What can we do to help the ones we love die with few regrets and with dignity? What does it feel like to lose the love of our life? How can we survive the journey through the land of the shadows and emerge on the other side with our sense of self intact? How can we think about dying? How can we learn to accept that we will die, and therefore deny death its power to terrify? Is there a good way to die? Through stories drawn from her own life and the lives of others, mingled with insights derived from philosophy, medicine and science, the author explores the answers to these questions. She presents a model that we can use to identify our unique way of embracing the joys and dealing with the burdens of growing old. Do we tend to maintain a positive outlook, or to despair? Do we fight back, or give in or give up? Are we optimistic? pessimistic? realistic? Are we resilient? adaptable? courageous? acceptant? Are we wise and balanced, or do we rage against the dying of the light? The model provides a road map to guide us through the difficult passages of aging, dealing with the death of loved ones and even contemplating our own demise. In short, The Hourglass:Life as an Aging Mortal confronts Death and its precursor, Aging, head on.
Subject: Death.
Aging.
Aging > Psychological aspects.
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